There are many women in the society where men are. There are also men
in plenty where there are women, and the balance of the two genders is
done in a manner that makes you just respect the medium that is behind
the balance. Even the ways the dating events are construed represent a
medium behind this. The difference is that there are so many single
people around who makes up a part of the population to attest to the
fact that it takes something more than a medium to make men and women
to start fulfilling the duty God endowed them.
To meet, get involved in dating, learn more about each other and change
each others life, through having long-lasting relationships that might
lead to matrimony and towards the divine call of filling the world with
small humans is the call of humanity. The woman you might be looking
for might just be right where you are and that you might be ignoring
the fact that attraction and love run beyond the fetishes that you have
as a man.
There are some things that you might make as a man and ruin all your
chances of ever meeting the girl of your life and dreams, meaning that
you might be up for one of the longest session of single hood without
dating events that crown and transform the lives of men and women. You
cannot deny the fact that meeting a woman is easy, but dating a woman
is a tough gum to chew. You might have the woman you want in mind but
when you meet her you are mute like a Charlie Chaplin movie, yet you
are one of the most talkative people around, more than even a modern
popular comedy.
Being tongue tied is one thing and talking to the woman you are
dating is another thing all together. You need to find the balance
between what you want and what you think the woman is all about and
what her character is, as well as what she wants. You need to be clear
what kind of woman you want in your life, or more specifically, what
kind of a woman you need while dating.
The first thing that comes in mind is the amount of comfort she
wields. You should pity the man who is dating a woman who is
uncomfortable and confused, she will ruin her mien and character and by
the end of the date, she would have made herself look like complete
fool.
Another thing the woman should have is a kind and relaxed aura about
her. A character that does not seem to demand a lot during the first
date, where the way she acts just makes you open up and want to know
her more. A woman who smiles is also a good date. Even if you are
making a fun of yourself and you are not clicking in her mind, she will
make you feel good and let the dating event end without an emotional
farewell that can make you to commit suicide.
by: Francis K. Githinji
